It has been awhile since I have posted last. There has been a lot going on in my life...and not for the good :(
My 4 year old son's father took me to court to get primary residence of him and for me to just get visitation...and he got it. How? I do not know!! He got kicked out of high school and how to graduate from an alternative school, he got caught with weed, he has been to rehab, and he had a heart attack at the age of 20 (because of ... "stress" or so he says). The only thing he has one me is that I now will have 4 kids and I accidentally burned my sons foot. Every time we have gone to court, he has gotten what he wanted.
He got caught with weed....his visitation was increased.
He had a heart attack...his visitation was increased.
I mess up one time and he gets taken from me!!!!!!
I now see him 5 days every two weeks..... He was not only taken from me, but his two sisters who were all very close to him (one is 3 and the other is one). I am at a loss for what to do. It doesn't seem that the judge will ever take my side.... and its not even his DAD who wants him. It is his dads mom (my sons grandmother) and the dads girlfriend.
I could go on and on about this- but I won't. NONE of this makes any sense to me.
I am confused. Did they give him custody of three of your children? Or do you just mean his sisters will miss him?
ReplyDeleteI wish you all the best. Perhaps you can look at this decision as a blessing, so you can deal with your daughters and the new one better until you graduate and maybe have more time. I know it does not seem like a blessing now.
My first child has a different father- I guess I could have made that clearer!
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